Six years ago today, I gave the eulogy at my mom's funeral. I wanted to share with you the condensed version of my mom's battle with pancreatic cancer, her final days with us, and my mom's death, and her funeral. I wanted to share with you my story of losing a parent.
This Sunday is the anniversary of my mom’s death. Although I’ve pretty much healed over the past 6 years, I…
Death has the power to turn your life upside down. When my mom died, I felt lost, alone, sad, and empty. The death of my mom left a gaping hole in my life and heart that nothing could fill. But eventually I learned to fight back against the grief and sadness, and I began to live again.
I can tell you how many birthday or holidays have passed since my mom died, or how long she’s been gone. Dates and numbers go through my mind, especially at certain times of year. It’s one of the ways I remember my mom, always wishing she was still here with me.
Crying is sometimes seen as a sign of weakness – it’s not. After losing a parent, crying can help release pain and lead to healing.
Do you feel guilty? It’s ok. Guilt is a natural feeling to have after losing a parent.
